January 23, 2008 at 1:05 pm (Memoral, Sadness, Understanding Life)
Being old enough to be the mother of a 28 year old like Heath Ledger, I find his death very sad. It will also be a loss to the acting profession.
I enjoy his work and will miss further abilities. To me it’s reminiscent of James Dean who also was a talent snuffed out at too early an age.
I know however of one more screen work in progress. He had filmed the character of The Joker in an upcoming, new Batman film In some of the clips I’ve seen, he looked very dark, but it’s a dark character. I wonder now if his look had anything to do with his recent emotional state.
Apparently he was taking several prescription medications, specifically for anxiety and Insomnia. The profession he chose is one of anxiety. It was said he had trouble shutting his mind off. I can see where that too could be profession related.
So many more answers may come after the autopsy and as time passes. Answers may help his family and others understand parts of the situation. The only thing I can count on is that we have lost an actor with a lot of potential. That saddens me and is enough to put the matter to rest.
I pray grace and peace for his friends and family, especially his daughter, Matilda.
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January 22, 2008 at 9:59 pm (Weather, leisure time)
We’re at 14 weeks remaining of my 16 week countdown. It’s hard to believe that it’s already past mid-January. One thing hasn’t changed though, and that’s the COLD weather. Last weekend the actual temperatures were hovering about 4 degrees with wind chill factors of minus 15. Michigan has already had more snow this year, so far, then we had all of last year. We’ve had an additional two feet!
Thankfully Rex and I have not had a problem with power outages or freezing pipes. It can be pretty difficult at times and I know we in Michigan are not in as bad shape as a lot of other places around the country.
It’s great for the people who like cold weather. I’m glad for them. They can honestly have my entire share. 
14 and counting…
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January 14, 2008 at 10:33 pm (Resolutions, health, health and cooking, leisure time)
So far I’ve kept with it. I won’t say I’ve done hard stuff or even work related things, but I’ve done at least one thing a day that’s made some sort of difference. Examples…
One day I created a recipe and passed it on to a friend. I cleaned out three drawers one day. I had some remaining holiday things that needed ironing and a little mending. I took care of that. I sorted through a rather large group of old pictures, pitched quite a few and prepared the remaining ones for an album. Today I did something I’ve not done in about 30 years. I laid out the fabric for a pattern and cut it out.
These aren’t difficult things, but they’re things that are keeping my mind active and keeping me up off my rear. …Can’t hurt!!
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January 7, 2008 at 11:54 pm (Resolutions, leisure time)
I resolve to…This year I’m going to…I want to…I will………resolutions! A lot of people make them. How many stick to them, only they would know. For the last several years I’ve decided not to make formal resolutions because I probably won’t continue with them. Weak? Maybe just honest.
I am going to TRY to do something differently this year. I’m going to TRY to do one thing every day that benefits me or someone else. I’m not talking about things like making my bed or emptying the dishwasher. I should be doing those things anyway. I mean one additional thing, one thing that isn’t a part of my typical day.
Today I organized a base cabinet in my kitchen. It’s the cabinet things get stuffed into, especially during the holidays. The whole project took me less that 15 minutes yet I felt that I accomplished something.
Other ideas could be….cleaning out a messy drawer, writing a letter/note to someone you think could use it, taking a dust cloth and wiping down all of the doors in your home, making a phone call to someone who won’t expect it but would enjoy it, or going through your medicine cabinet making sure things are not past their expiration date. These are all small things but things that will help YOU in the long run OR make you feel better just having done it.
As I said…I’m going to TRY.
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January 6, 2008 at 8:14 pm (New Year, Weather)
It’s Sunday, January 6th. I’m in Michigan. We’re having a January thaw. Today it’s nearing 45 degrees and the majority of the 12 inches of snow we got on New Year’s Eve is gone. It’s supposed to reach the 50’s tomorrow and then turn cold again with more snow, probably measurable, forecasted for the middle of next week.
One thing I’ve come to rely on in Michigan is about 16 weeks of cold winter weather starting from January 1st., running to sometime in April. I keep hoping that it won’t be that long a stretch, but it seems that if I plan on 16 weeks, I’m not disappointed at all if it’s only 12 or 13. That’s just a bonus.
I’ve lived in Michigan all of my life except for a short stint in Charleston,South Carolina when my first husband was in the Navy and we were stationed there, and as a child living in Glendora, California with my parents and brother.
Since most of my adult life has been in Michigan, I’m used to cold weather in the winter. Nearly six years ago, our daughter was graduated from college and got the opportunity to move to Southern California, moved, and started her career there. She was never fond of cold weather and when the chance was given she left. I don’t blame her at all.
In the future if things work out we could move to a warmer climate. I don’t want to move to California just because our daughter and her husband are there. It would be our luck that as soon as we got settled there, they in their young careers would move away. We have to move where we think we’d like to be, and not just for the sake of others.
Until then though…I guess I’ll just go with the 16 weeks. Tomorrow it becomes 15 weeks, so we’re at least on our way.
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January 3, 2008 at 9:19 pm (Understanding Life)
Tags: Death, Feelings, health, Life
Rex and I started our day yesterday (Wednesday) on a sad note. We’d left home to run a few errands the first of which was going to the post office to drop off a few pieces of mail. It’s just a few blocks from us. While driving down the street Rex came to a near stop and said,”Oh my God!”. He then pulled into a driveway.
He noticed that there was a snow blower running with no one at the controls. As we looked further toward the house we noticed what appeared to be a man laying in the middle of the driveway. There was no one by him. As we got closer I noticed a woman walking through the snow toward us. She was flagging me down. Rex turned off the snow blower. We didn’t need that noise. He walked toward the man and later told me he had a blueish skin tone.
When the lady got close enough I asked her if she needed me to call 911. She said she had and that paramedics were on the way. I thought it best to move our car out of the driveway. About a minute later a Policeman drove in, followed by an ambulance.
The paramedics started working on the man and got him on a back board, gurney and put him in the ambulance. A Sheriff’s cruiser pulled up then and two more paramedics went to the ambulance.
The Policeman came over to us, asking if we were family members. We told him we weren’t, and that we were just on the way to the post office. He asked for our names and phone number. Rex asked him if he’d heard a pulse. He said no. Soon afterward we decided it was best to leave. There was no more we could do, so we thought it best to get out of the way.
We’ve heard nothing and are waiting for our daily newspaper to see if it holds any information. Yesterday’s paper would have already gone to press at the time of the incident.
Feelings were difficult the rest of the day. It was the first encounter for each of us, coming upon a situation like that. What should you do? What do you say? It’s a strange feeling coming upon mortality. I guess all we can do is hope for the best for the man, his wife and family.
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January 2, 2008 at 12:23 pm (Christmas, New Year)
Tags: holiday memories, pets, rats
A highlight of our holidays with Cassie and Ryan was being “introduced” to our “Grand Rats”. Yes, that’s rats. They’re clean. They’re cute. They’re friendly and each has her own personality.
When Cassie and Ryan told us they were driving from California to Michigan with the rats, we were a bit surprised. Cassie and Ryan were welcome with open arms, so….. Ratsy and Squidgie were welcome also.
We spent three days with them stationed on a spare couch and really enjoyed seeing Cassie and Ryan play with them. Rex and I had some play time also. Initially Cassie was concerned about them being warm enough. (Since she moved to California her blood has thinned, and when she comes to visit in the winter we know we’ll be cranking the heat up some.)
On Christmas Eve morning, I needed to finish the holiday baking that I wasn’t going to do any of…so I brought Ratsy and Squidgie’s cage into the kitchen. I thought the heat from the oven might be especially nice for them. When Rex got up he even gave them little samples of cookies and bread. They seemed very interested in obtaining those tidbits.
Cassie used an old beach towel to cover the couch. We did discover a couple of small chew holes in the towel, but now we really have something to remember them by….little holes of endearment.
We had a nice time with the “grand rats” and welcome them back any time. Cassie and Ryan are very welcome too.
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December 31, 2007 at 2:03 am (Christmas)
Boy!! What a blur the last week has been. It took me a day to just catch up on my rest. Rex and I were able to visit with our daughter and her husband from the evening of Saturday, December 22nd. until the early morning of Wednesday, December 26th. It was short but very enjoyable. It was a real eye opening experience for us. We enjoyed spending the time with Cassie and Ryan, but it was a different holiday for us. It was a learning experience and the end of an era. We hope to have opened another era though, and are looking forward to more of that. More details will follow, probably tomorrow.
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December 19, 2007 at 9:06 pm (Christmas)
Rex and I finally have the Christmas shopping completed. Now I have to wrap everything that wasn’t already shipped. That will keep me busy for a while.
Rex is wrapping Christmas gifts now. They’re probably all or at least mostly for me. He’s one of the world’s most interesting gift wrappers. He gives it a good try, but……. It always brings smiles to our faces. He also has this habit of writing little poems on the tags. They’re a hoot. It’s just another good part of the holidays.
Our daughter and her husband are in route from California to Michigan by car. We’re very excited about seeing them and wish them traveling mercies and God speed. It’s quite a trek and we hope they have a great time.
We purchased the majority of our Christmas dinner today. I’m getting hungry just thinking about it. It will only be the four of us, but I’m sure we’ll have a good time. One think I’m not sure about yet is what to have for dessert. It’s Christmas and we’d all like to splurge, but none of us need the extra calories or sugar. …Any good ideas!?!?
I guess I should go hit the wrapping now. On to the paper, tape, bows and such.
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December 18, 2007 at 12:49 am (Christmas, health, leisure time)
I suppose all of us from time to time take things for granted. It’s when something starts to hurt, or we run out of it that you really realize just how much you need it or use it.
I’ve been working on some typical Christmas things, crafts, cooking, cards, decorating, etc. Over the season I have really come to appreciate my thumbs. My hands have been in and out of water, craft materials, wrapping paper, ribbon, and other things you get into during the holidays. I’ve developed a skin crack on my left thumb. It’s very sore and I’m trying to use it as little as possible. I’m very left handed and trying to substitute my right hand/thumb is very awkward for me. I never realized just how much I use my thumbs before.
They say you never really appreciate anything until it’s gone. I guess that’s true enough. Something so small having an effect on the things you do on a daily basis is an eye opening experience.
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